Welcome to Feminist Outlaw!

I am Diana Adams, and I have found bliss in love and success in career by breaking society's rules on how to live my life.

FeministOutlaw.com is my platform for "coming out" as a relationship and legal activist, and sharing what I've learned.

I believe my generation of feminism is about creating choices in how we can live our lives, regardless of gender. I believe the current rules of society and law are outdated, and don't support us in the reality of our lives, especially as women and non-nuclear families. I believe our government should value ALL families.

In my work for social change as a sexual civil rights lawyer, I advocate for nontraditional families, and educate about healthy family options beyond married Mom-and-Dads. My passion comes from my own experience in nontraditional relationships, and fuels me as a personal activist for relationship choices.  As a bisexual and happily polyamorous woman, I live in open relationships with full honesty and radical communication between my partners, with a glorious chosen family.

I teach the Relationship Ninja skills I've learned as a relationship educator and coach, including self-awareness, radical honesty, confronting jealousy, and negotiating family agreements.

I want to share these things I've learned, support you in your legal choices, and help you create your dream relationships, too. I hope the resources on this site help and want to here your thoughts on these topics!


Upcoming Workshops, Speaking Engagements, and Self-Defense Classes


4/17/15: Transgender Issues in Family Law at the Durham LGBTQ Center.
The Durham LGBTQ Center is hosting a Trans Week of Awareness, and I will be speaking on issues specific to the representation of transgender clients in family law matters, including family formation, assisted reproduction technologies, and divorce. RSVP on facebook here.

Monthly, on the second Friday of each month:
Poly Cocktails at the Delancey
I co-host this monthly 21+ mixer for NYC's polyamorous community. We welcome a wide range of people in consensually non-monogamous relationships, or who are curious about this lifestyle and want to make friends and build community! House rules can be found here.
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Please direct all teaching, speaking, and workshop inquiries to contact@dianaadamslaw.net.

Featured Videos
Diana on Current TV

Diana on MTV's True Life: I'm Polyamorous

Diana's follow-up on MTV's True Life: I'm Polyamorous